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Posted in: Intuition

June 29, 2020

Sibling loss

My sister died, 11 years ago on 6/28/09. That still sounds strange to say.  For a while I was hard on myself because I never really felt the heartache I had when other close relatives that passed. I would always ask myself, Why don’t I have the heartache and pain of losing my sister?  Maybe […]

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August 22, 2019

I was left speechless after meditation

Meditate to heal grief.

Last Saturday night I attended a workshop hosted by Barbara. Let me tell you, she is awesome at what she does. She is an awesome soul and is so easy to listen to. I went to this workshop without any expectations. I didn’t  know what was going to happen, which is totally out of my […]

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May 20, 2019

Spirit talks to me

psychic medium, spiritual, afterlife communicate with deceased loved ones

I have had some conversations recently with some cool peeps. These people have confirmed for me that what goes on in my world and what goes on in the spirit world is real. It’s not just my mind playing tricks. I do believe that there aren’t any coincidences, and that there is a reason for […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, Intuition

March 31, 2018

My random week 🙃 😀

Just when I thought I wouldn’t have anything to write about, random strangers came into my life and gave me ideas to put down. It’s strange how the world works. This is one of the reasons why I believe your life is already set for you, and you just have to go through each day […]

Posted in: Intuition, My Grief Story

February 21, 2018

Life and Death

2 years ago today my God sister left this world. A strong willed, kind hearted soul. The days leading up to her passing were kinda out of sorts for me. It was tough since I was out in Arizona at the time and they were in New Jersey. I really didn’t know how good or […]

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July 17, 2017

Sensing Spirit 

spirits communicate with me

I believe this is what has been holding me back from writing more.  The fear of what I am about to write about. I shouldn’t say fear because it’s all in my mind. It’s just me holding myself back.  I don’t really care what people think, but when it comes to a sensitive subject like […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, Intuition

May 20, 2017

The out of no where spiritual experience 

you are not alone

Everyone has seen those shows with Theresa Caputo (Long Island medium) I totally believe in their whole life and what they do for others. I have done a session with a psychic medium and also one through Skype. 90 percent of what they said and or told me was true. My father in law passed […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, Intuition, My Grief Story

May 7, 2017

The drive

What’s up world, family, friends? After my dad was done with his job that he was with for 25 years, he began to work in the flower shop next door to our house. This was the same flower shop my grandfather owned for years… Anyway, my dad started to work for Bob who had  owned […]


Hey, I'm Tom Biddulph. I'm a Dad, Husband and the friend that calls you on your birthday. I've learned grief is a never ending journey after losing 16 loved ones. Still I've learned to find the good grievings along the way that bring joy & healing, My hope is to help you do the same. 

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