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January 10, 2021

Self care, for self healing

We all know that if you suppress and don’t express whatever you are dealing with especially grief it can affect your health.

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December 12, 2019

‘‘Twas the night before Christmas”

‘‘Twas the night before Christmas” ‘‘Twas the night before Christmas” — Read on

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August 22, 2019

My new Endeavor

What up what up? So, I know it has been a while since my last post. I have been thinking, working, procrastinating, contemplating, procrastinating a little more and maybe just being lazy. Finally I’m am here, and will be here foreverrerrrr. (Did ya get it? The sandlot!) Last week while on our trip to Charlotte, […]

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February 22, 2019

Memories of being a child

dad greiving childhood

My youngest daughter asked the other night at dinner.. “Mama, Daddy, do you like being an adult?” It made us both think. Of course we both answered yes, but deep down I miss being a kid. My daughter then said, “I don’t want to be an adult, cause you have to work and pay bills […]

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December 24, 2018

‘‘Twas the night before Christmas”

As I sit here and reminisce on the past as a kid at Christmas, I remember all the great things we did and I smile. Of course it’s not the same now having 2 beautiful girls of my own. Traditions change, new memories are made. Although one tradition I have kept is reading the same […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, Healing

December 14, 2018

My soul is happy

support others passion purpose

I just wanted to say thank you for all the support I have received over the past year and half. I have met so many cool people on social media and that continues to grow. Quick story: This lady came to my store last week, she was wanting to print some Christmas cards. She was […]

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November 7, 2018


family dad playing with girls living in the moment

Everyone for the most part hates change, right? Or maybe it is just me? I don’t know how others think, but a lot of the time I think others know what I’m thinking. As if those people are in my head at that exact time. I love this blog! I feel it has reached others […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, My Life

August 31, 2018

Quick thoughts

balance positivity anxiety

Not everyone can be super positive and upbeat each day.  There are days when I am feeling anxious, there are days when I feel down. If you follow me on twitter you may see me sending positive vibes and cheering others on.  You may see my feed and say to yourself, “wow this guy has […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, Healing

August 24, 2018

I used to

I used to get upset when I saw a tv show where a son hugged his mom. I used to get emotional when I would see a son hug his mom in public. I used to get upset when I saw a family of 4, like mine growing up out at dinner. I used to […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, My Life

July 20, 2018

It’s a beach day

There is nothing like the Jersey Shore!! The beach/boardwalk/food… ya get it. As I sit here just relaxing with some Zach Brown on and my toes in the sand, I can’t but help to think how it would be with my mom here with us. Growing up I hated the beach. I would always need […]


Hey, I'm Tom Biddulph. I'm a Dad, Husband and the friend that calls you on your birthday. I've learned grief is a never ending journey after losing 16 loved ones. Still I've learned to find the good grievings along the way that bring joy & healing, My hope is to help you do the same. 

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