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December 2, 2019

Hey you, come listen in

Hey all, several weeks ago I was honored to chat with my buddy Jasmine “Jazz” @thiswomanfromnyc on her podcast. We talked about several topics around grief, and also how I handle grief. Click the link below to hear the whole interview. I chatted with Tom Biddulph who is a fellow blogger extraordinaire who created the […]

Posted in: Healing

November 18, 2019

The Most Valuable thing I have learned.

I recently was asked a question by one of my new followers this past week that really stumped me.  I really had to think about my answer, even though after I got my answer I said to myself I should have known that. The question was, What was the most valuable thing you have learned […]

Posted in: Healing

October 22, 2019

Practicing meditation reduced my anxiety

If you have tried everything in this world to lesson your anxiety and you can’t grasp why you still feel the way you do, try meditating. When I started meditating 10 weeks ago my anxiety dropped off drastically. I now have the tools to make me gain more clarity and think without reacting to negative […]

Posted in: Intuition

August 22, 2019

I was left speechless after meditation

Meditate to heal grief.

Last Saturday night I attended a workshop hosted by Barbara. Let me tell you, she is awesome at what she does. She is an awesome soul and is so easy to listen to. I went to this workshop without any expectations. I didn’t  know what was going to happen, which is totally out of my […]

Posted in: Good Grievings

August 22, 2019

My new Endeavor

What up what up? So, I know it has been a while since my last post. I have been thinking, working, procrastinating, contemplating, procrastinating a little more and maybe just being lazy. Finally I’m am here, and will be here foreverrerrrr. (Did ya get it? The sandlot!) Last week while on our trip to Charlotte, […]

Posted in: Intuition

May 20, 2019

Spirit talks to me

psychic medium, spiritual, afterlife communicate with deceased loved ones

I have had some conversations recently with some cool peeps. These people have confirmed for me that what goes on in my world and what goes on in the spirit world is real. It’s not just my mind playing tricks. I do believe that there aren’t any coincidences, and that there is a reason for […]

Posted in: Media

April 3, 2019

Grief is a bitch, but I don’t let it get the best of me.

I had the pleasure of chatting with Darwyn last week about my story, and how I deal with grief. We took a dive into why I started my blog, and the counseling I have sought for myself. We also dove into other topics pertaining to grief. Grief is something we all carry, it’s the way […]

Posted in: Media

March 21, 2019

Dealing with Grief and loss on TV and beyond

full house, mom died, grief, family loss

I was honored to be asked to be a part of a post on grief and loss through TV and or movie. There are plenty of TV series and movies that can make you think of a lost loved. It took me a bit to actually think of  of a specific show. After talking it […]

Posted in: Healing

March 14, 2019

Surviving Flo

after hurricane florence disaster grief healing dealing

It’s been a while my friends. I started a new position at my job and it has been an adjustment. I really am loving it it though. I was driving to work this morning and on the radio they were talking about the Hurricane that hit us exactly 6 months ago today. I said to […]

Posted in: Good Grievings

February 22, 2019

Memories of being a child

dad greiving childhood

My youngest daughter asked the other night at dinner.. “Mama, Daddy, do you like being an adult?” It made us both think. Of course we both answered yes, but deep down I miss being a kid. My daughter then said, “I don’t want to be an adult, cause you have to work and pay bills […]


Hey, I'm Tom Biddulph. I'm a Dad, Husband and the friend that calls you on your birthday. I've learned grief is a never ending journey after losing 16 loved ones. Still I've learned to find the good grievings along the way that bring joy & healing, My hope is to help you do the same. 

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