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Posted in: My Grief Story, My Life

May 15, 2020

Grieving a parent

So, my Dad died. He died 26 days ago. His death was a shock, but at the same time a relief in ways. My Dad was a unique individual. I always used to say he was in “Gene World”. He was so obviously to many things. Maybe that was because he was in such a […]

Posted in: Media

May 8, 2020

Listen to my own advice

losing my father

One of the hardest things I have had to do is take my own advice. For someone who has been speaking from my experiences and past loss, I have been struggling with listening to everything I have been saying to do. I know I ‘ll get through, but to be honest it’s a bitch. Click […]

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February 29, 2020

Live with Tom Biddulph

Check out this video as I talk about grief and anxiety. Click below Tom Biddulph (@GoodGrievings). Follow along my journey through grief. Intuitive life coach, here to guide you in life and grief. — Read on

Posted in: My Grief Story

February 24, 2020

The aftermath and Grief

20 years sounds like a longtime and it is, but for me it seems like yesterday. I could explain to you in detail of what happened from beginning to end. From the distraught of losing my mom, to my swollen hand (which I used to shake hands with at the funeral) from punching a brick […]

Posted in: My Grief Story

February 16, 2020

I got thrown a curve ball

On the eve of my mom’s 20 year anniversary of her passing, I look back and remember that day as if it was yesterday. February 17, 2000 I didn’t even see the pitch coming, It felt like I got hit with the pitch and I couldn’t get up.  I think back and I could tell […]

Posted in: Good Grievings

December 12, 2019

‘‘Twas the night before Christmas”

‘‘Twas the night before Christmas” ‘‘Twas the night before Christmas” — Read on

Posted in: Media

December 10, 2019

The Excitement is building: Speaking in a grief summit

In 6 days I will be apart an inspirational group of individuals who speak about grief. I’m eager to hear each ones take about grief and how they get through. I met the host of this online summit through Twitter. The whole thing happened so fast. Melo said she found me through another person I […]

Posted in: Media

December 2, 2019

Hey you, come listen in

Hey all, several weeks ago I was honored to chat with my buddy Jasmine “Jazz” @thiswomanfromnyc on her podcast. We talked about several topics around grief, and also how I handle grief. Click the link below to hear the whole interview. I chatted with Tom Biddulph who is a fellow blogger extraordinaire who created the […]

Posted in: Healing

November 18, 2019

The Most Valuable thing I have learned.

I recently was asked a question by one of my new followers this past week that really stumped me.  I really had to think about my answer, even though after I got my answer I said to myself I should have known that. The question was, What was the most valuable thing you have learned […]

Posted in: Healing

October 22, 2019

Practicing meditation reduced my anxiety

If you have tried everything in this world to lesson your anxiety and you can’t grasp why you still feel the way you do, try meditating. When I started meditating 10 weeks ago my anxiety dropped off drastically. I now have the tools to make me gain more clarity and think without reacting to negative […]


Hey, I'm Tom Biddulph. I'm a Dad, Husband and the friend that calls you on your birthday. I've learned grief is a never ending journey after losing 16 loved ones. Still I've learned to find the good grievings along the way that bring joy & healing, My hope is to help you do the same. 

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