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Posted in: Intuition

June 29, 2020

Sibling loss

My sister died, 11 years ago on 6/28/09. That still sounds strange to say.  For a while I was hard on myself because I never really felt the heartache I had when other close relatives that passed. I would always ask myself, Why don’t I have the heartache and pain of losing my sister?  Maybe […]

Posted in: Media

June 26, 2020

Father’s Day

A tribute to my Dad. I hope you all had a wonderful Father’s Day.

Posted in: Help & Resources

June 26, 2020

2 things that help me get through

Take a deep breath in with a happy thought, Exhale out your negative thought.

Posted in: Healing

June 16, 2020

Death leaves scars of heartache

Have you ever felt such heartache after a loved one dies, that you think it will never fade a way? Have you ever had such heartache that you can’t handle how much it hurts that you cant talk to that person any longer? We all have, its apart of grieving. Although that heartache never really […]

Posted in: Healing

May 30, 2020

A lightbulb went off

Write a letter, even if it just to get the anxiety and pain out of your head and onto paper. It will help you!

Posted in: Healing, Help & Resources

May 23, 2020

Grieving in public is therapy

I was on a podcast on April 18th, a day before my Dad passed away. On the podcast I spoke about the losses I have endured throughout my life. I spoke to the guys about the things that have gotten me through. The breathing techniques, the meditation etc. It is easier said than done […]

Posted in: My Grief Story, My Life

May 18, 2020

Grieving COVID Style

When someone dies and not just a parent, What you do you think the first thing to come to mind is? When I got the call my Dad passed was, Is there anything I regret not doing, or saying etc? At first I said to myself, shit I didn’t call him yesterday which was Saturday. […]

Posted in: My Grief Story, My Life

May 15, 2020

Grieving a parent

So, my Dad died. He died 26 days ago. His death was a shock, but at the same time a relief in ways. My Dad was a unique individual. I always used to say he was in “Gene World”. He was so obviously to many things. Maybe that was because he was in such a […]

Posted in: Media

May 8, 2020

Listen to my own advice

losing my father

One of the hardest things I have had to do is take my own advice. For someone who has been speaking from my experiences and past loss, I have been struggling with listening to everything I have been saying to do. I know I ‘ll get through, but to be honest it’s a bitch. Click […]

Posted in: Media

February 29, 2020

Live with Tom Biddulph

Check out this video as I talk about grief and anxiety. Click below Tom Biddulph (@GoodGrievings). Follow along my journey through grief. Intuitive life coach, here to guide you in life and grief. — Read on


Hey, I'm Tom Biddulph. I'm a Dad, Husband and the friend that calls you on your birthday. I've learned grief is a never ending journey after losing 16 loved ones. Still I've learned to find the good grievings along the way that bring joy & healing, My hope is to help you do the same. 

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