helping men transform their feelings


the blog

the blog

Posted in: Good Grievings, My Life

July 14, 2018

Enjoying my life

I have been looking forward to this trip for months. One of the main reasons is for the girls to see family and actually remember it all. They were 3 yrs old and 18 months the last time. It’s gonna be a blast watching them enjoy each day. There are plenty of other reasons why […]

Posted in: My Life

June 2, 2018

I donno – blank title

Happy Saturday peeps! You are probably wondering what’s up with the I donno? Well, I really don’t know. I have a hard time coming up with things to blog about without being repetitive. Maybe that is what blogs are supposed to be about? Are they? If you have read my blog already you know my […]

Posted in: My Life

April 30, 2018

Sunday Dreaming

dreaming dream catcher

Hello again! If you are reading this, please know that I appreciate you for coming back and following along my journey. I have connected with so many positive people through twitter that it makes my soul happy. With that said, I wanted to share a dream with you that really hit me. It brought me […]

Posted in: Help & Resources

April 21, 2018

Positivity is Key

2 years ago this week, my wife and I first visited the city we now live in. We came to scope it out and we just fell in love with it. For the year and half we have actually lived here, I would always say “it doesn’t feel like a beach town”. I guess I […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, Intuition

March 31, 2018

My random week 🙃 😀

Just when I thought I wouldn’t have anything to write about, random strangers came into my life and gave me ideas to put down. It’s strange how the world works. This is one of the reasons why I believe your life is already set for you, and you just have to go through each day […]

Posted in: My Life

March 15, 2018

It’s never too late! Live your dash

“Starting over” so many people are scared of that phrase. There is absolutely no reason to be. I left the state I grew up in and for the longest time I would say I’m never leaving. I obviously left and it was one of the best decisions I have ever made. After 8 years in […]

Posted in: Good Grievings

February 25, 2018

Spirits communicating with us

Happy Sunday to all you beautiful souls. Today I have another story about a spirit that wasn’t ready to leave this earth. Is anyone ever ready to leave this earth when they die? When my mom passed away my sister and I were teenagers. If you asked me about how the day went down when […]

Posted in: Good Grievings

February 22, 2018

My fuel to keep going

What’s up ya’ll 😉. Since being in the south I hear it all the time. I say it as a joke because others still crack a joke at the way I say Water. I’m from NJ, You can’t take that outta me so fagettaboutit. So I’m here today to talk about the fuel that keeps […]

Posted in: Intuition, My Grief Story

February 21, 2018

Life and Death

2 years ago today my God sister left this world. A strong willed, kind hearted soul. The days leading up to her passing were kinda out of sorts for me. It was tough since I was out in Arizona at the time and they were in New Jersey. I really didn’t know how good or […]

Posted in: Healing, My Grief Story

February 17, 2018

“Make life count”

On this 18th anniversary of the passing of my mother I have come to say “make your life count” Dealing with loss is just brutal. February is and always will be the toughest month to go through. I have grown to accept it, but for a long time I would sulk and be depressed. My […]


Hey, I'm Tom Biddulph. I'm a Dad, Husband and the friend that calls you on your birthday. I've learned grief is a never ending journey after losing 16 loved ones. Still I've learned to find the good grievings along the way that bring joy & healing, My hope is to help you do the same. 

learn more

looking for something?

blog categories


My grief story



Help & resources

My life


intuitive life coach


let's connect

back to the top