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Posted in: My Grief Story

February 6, 2019

Grief can go kick rocks

loss of friend, stir up old feelings of pain and grief

Grief really cant kick rocks, but if you don’t take care of yourself it can kick your butt…. A friend from High school past away last week. It was a shock to me even though I knew he was ill, but not ill to the point of him passing on.  The first thing I said […]

Posted in: Help & Resources

January 29, 2019

Counseling, The best choice I made

therapy, counseling, mental health, support, help, resources

After my mom died I was so distracted by many things.  Work, helping my dad, school, then my dad having surgery and a bit after becoming handicapped. It wasn’t til 3 years later when I realized I needed help. Fortunately through my job I had an EAP contact (Employee Assistance Program)  If you aren’t familiar […]

Posted in: My Grief Story

January 25, 2019

Good Grievings is support in extra innings

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I found a blog online earlier that really hit home.  He wrote about how when someone passes, the influx of support is insane. The phone calls, messages, visitors etc are in abundance.  Then after a couple weeks, poof its gone besides a selected few. The day I found out my mom died I was at […]

Posted in: Good Grievings

December 24, 2018

‘‘Twas the night before Christmas”

As I sit here and reminisce on the past as a kid at Christmas, I remember all the great things we did and I smile. Of course it’s not the same now having 2 beautiful girls of my own. Traditions change, new memories are made. Although one tradition I have kept is reading the same […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, Healing

December 14, 2018

My soul is happy

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I just wanted to say thank you for all the support I have received over the past year and half. I have met so many cool people on social media and that continues to grow. Quick story: This lady came to my store last week, she was wanting to print some Christmas cards. She was […]

Posted in: Healing, My Grief Story

December 11, 2018

Religious Faith and Grieving

faith, church, grieving, loss, death, heaven, spiritual

Does faith in God make it easier to grieve? I was angry at God for losing my Mom despite my religious Catholic upbringing.

Posted in: Media

November 24, 2018

Finding Your Inner Spark After Trauma With Tom Biddulph

Here’s is an interview I did yesterday. I thought I would share it again. It’s very insightful. It actually took me longer than I thought to answer. Chris has some great questions that he came up with. Enjoy, and let me know what you think. I’m looking to do this more in the near future. […]

Posted in: Good Grievings

November 7, 2018


family dad playing with girls living in the moment

Everyone for the most part hates change, right? Or maybe it is just me? I don’t know how others think, but a lot of the time I think others know what I’m thinking. As if those people are in my head at that exact time. I love this blog! I feel it has reached others […]

Posted in: My Life

October 27, 2018

The Hurricane

hurricane florence damage family home north carolina grief

Never in my life was I so Anxious, even after losing my mom. Hurricane Florence hit our hometown in September and stuck around for three days. It was a Cat 4 before making landfall as a Cat 1. For all you non weather geeks, the Category of a hurricane goes off of how strong the […]

Posted in: Good Grievings, My Life

August 31, 2018

Quick thoughts

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Not everyone can be super positive and upbeat each day.  There are days when I am feeling anxious, there are days when I feel down. If you follow me on twitter you may see me sending positive vibes and cheering others on.  You may see my feed and say to yourself, “wow this guy has […]


Hey, I'm Tom Biddulph. I'm a Dad, Husband and the friend that calls you on your birthday. I've learned grief is a never ending journey after losing 16 loved ones. Still I've learned to find the good grievings along the way that bring joy & healing, My hope is to help you do the same. 

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