finding the good after loss

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April 28, 2017

The start of it all

Posted in: My Grief Story, My Life

It started in 1994, I was 12 and lost Ed who was like a grandfather to me. Exactly 2 years later I lost my grandfather (my moms dad) in the very house I grew up in. Two years later I lost my grandmother (my dads mom) suddenly.

Being so young I really didn’t know what grieving was.  I didn’t know someone could be so upset over losing someone plus I had school and basketball to keep me distracted.  I didn’t know there could be “good grievings”

18 months after my grandmother died my world was totally flipped up side down.  I learned that my beautiful, caring, and compassionate mother had passed away. (More on this soon)  I had a few friends/family/acquaintances  pass away after my mom passed. The years I really can’t remember exactly.

Years passed and in June 2009, I lost my little sister Katie at the age of 25. A few years later I lost my father in law Ed. Most recently about a year ago I lost my courageous godsister Amanda at the age of 30. In May of last year Uncle Bob passed away unexpectedly.

Through all of this I have learned a lot and have lived my life to the fullest. I have learned that there are “good grievings”


  1. Thank you for taking us on this journey Tom. Looking forward to your future updates.

    We really all can learn how to deal with loss and grief, since in some way, shape or form, it hits all of us at sometime.


    • tbiddulph says:

      Much appreciated Ryan, I really am looking to get to the people that are looking for help. I feel compelled to help them weather In person or through my blog.

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